Delicate talk with your child

Many parents hard to start a conversation with children on such topics: sex, violence, drugs, death or divorce. But your children grow and you should be ready for such sensitive issues. Be the initiator of the conversation is better that the child learns from your answers to their sensitive questions than receive distorted information from someone else. Here I want to give some advice about the place, time and tone of the conversation with your child on sensitive topics.

Talk with your child: Age

Many parents tend not to talk with children on sensitive topics and in every possible way to weasel out of such conversations. As a consequence, children learn everything from others. Some psychologists recommend to communicate with your child on those topics that interest him. Then he will have more trust in you and talk about their experiences and feelings. Talking with your child on sensitive topics may have with the age of three.

Talk with your child: Atmosphere

To talk with a child must create the appropriate atmosphere. The conversation should start with the phrase "You should be ashamed" or "do not do it. This will cause negative emotions you both, and then the child is unlikely to want to tell you that he is concerned or interested. As a consequence, your child simply closes in itself. Therefore, any and tembolee delicate, talk with your child to start with something good, positive, and only then move on to the main topic of conversation.

Talk with your child: Time

In order that the conversation would be a success it is important to choose the right time and place. The best time to call is a delicate time, when the child is feeling quite relaxed as possible. For example, when watching cartoons during the game, before going to bed or while riding in the car. For each child, this time may be different, watch for a child and you'll see when to start a conversation.

child himself asked the question

often happens that children themselves are asked about sensitive issues and it is very good, because it is a sign of confidence. For example, a child may ask you: "Who are" prostitutes ", and where they live?". Most parents will respond immediately, you're still small and you are not supposed to know, but it is absolutely not correct. Try all the same to explain the child what he asks, and make it as clear to him the language. Indeed, if the child will not receive your answers to their questions, it just stops you to trust their feelings and emotions.

If you do not respond to a natural interest in growing and developing child, he would meet from other sources that do not always dostoverny.Poetomu better to let the child hear the answer from your lips than learn about it on the street or on television. The more you help your child discover the world, the more he will trust you.